You may have, at one point in time or another, had to be a house guest with a relative, a friend, an acquaintance or others for various reasons. Perhaps, it was for a few days, a week or even a few months. If your experience was terrific, then perhaps, it was because both you and your hosts put in a little more effort to make your stay altogether wonderful. If your experience was awful, however, and you found yourself hoping that you never have to be anyone’s house guest ever again, then perhaps certain rules of etiquette were taken for granted.

Living with people can be tricky, and the experience can either strengthen relationships or break them. Thus, it is important to be extra aware and self conscious of some rules of etiquette to uphold when you are being hosted by anyone, no matter how close you two are.

1. Be Clear About How Long You Are Staying As a House Guest and Stick to It

Let your hosts know well in advance how long you intend to stay and do well to stay true to your word. Remember you are a house guest. Overstaying your welcome may begin to cause some tension and irritation from your host, regardless of how accommodating they may be.
Letting them know about your exact itinerary could also help them plan their lives effectively around your stay.
If for some reason, you must extend your stay, it is advised that you give your hosts prior notice and let them decide if this is fine by them.

2. Follow House Rules and Act More Appropriately than Usual

Remember that this is not your personal space. Thus, as a house guest, adhere to the rules that may exist in your new temporary home. Some of these rules may not be explicitly stated but you may take a cue from your hosts and follow accordingly.
Should you leave your shoes at the door before you enter the room? Is dinner strictly had at the dining table? Is it ok to have snacks/meals in the bedroom? If these are not clear, it may be safe to simply ask.
Also, be mindful to act a little more appropriately than you would at home. Thus, wear decent clothing around the house, use appropriate language, etc.

3. Be Very Helpful

There is nothing more exciting than a helpful house guest! Offer your help to your hosts even in the smallest ways possible. They may turn it down, but they will appreciate the gesture regardless. Help set up the table for dinner, help cook dinner, help clean up around the house, or help with the children if there are any.
It may be good to also pitch in with some groceries to help support your hosts if you are staying for an extended period. This may help ease the burden of their catering to your meals daily.

4. Clean Up After Yourself Always

One of the nightmares of every host is to accommodate a disorganised and dirty house guest. As much as possible, clean up after yourself.
On the day you have to leave, make sure your room is as clean as possible. Change the sheets if you have access to fresh sheets, or simply lay the bed back neatly. You could also remove the sheets and pillowcases, folding them neatly on the bed.
Ensure you’ve packed all your items; for those who are particularly hairy, pick up loose hair that may be lying around; and return everything back to its original position.

5. Bring a Gift

It is always a great idea as a house guest to show up with a thoughtful gift. This is a simple act that could communicate appreciation in volumes and sets the tone to a great start of your stay.
It does not have to be a big gift – a bottle of wine, an art piece, some special snacks, etc.

When all is said and done, certainly do not forget to say thank you. A lifestyle blog suggests that you say thank you three times – the day you arrive, the day you leave, and after you’re gone.
Being hosted in another person’s home regardless of relationship (family members inclusive) can either be a great or sour experience. Taking note of these rules of etiquette and more will help make it a memorable one and will guarantee that they keep their doors always open for you whenever you may like to visit again.